Most families who plan ahead tell us afterward that the conversation itself brought relief. No paperwork is signed unless you ask.
When a death is sudden, the family must make every arrangement in a state of grief. Pre-planning removes that burden from the people who love you most.
You choose the service. You choose the setting — the 1828 farmhouse, the barn chapel, or elsewhere. You set the tone. Your family, when the day comes, can focus entirely on each other.
Most people who come to us for pre-planning tell us they feel lighter walking out than they did walking in. That surprises them. It does not surprise us.
A quiet conversation. Nothing more, unless you want it to be.
"Planning a funeral in advance is one of the kindest things you can do for the people you love."
— The Heard FamilyNot necessarily. You can pre-plan your arrangements — writing down your wishes, choosing services, setting a budget — without funding anything. If you choose to fund in advance, we offer plans through insured trust so your money is protected.
Plans can be changed at any time. Life changes, and so do wishes. We offer annual reviews at no charge, and there is no penalty for adjusting your plans.
If you move, your pre-arranged plan can transfer. We will work with a funeral home in your new location to ensure your wishes are honored wherever you are.
Not at all. We will come to your kitchen table if that is easier. Many families prefer the first conversation at home. We can work in whatever setting feels right to you.
Call us, or send a note. There is no commitment, no cost, and no pressure — just a conversation that most families tell us they wish they had started sooner.